Where do I start? These last two weeks are kind of a blur! We’ve all had the flu, Eddie was first, then Dian, in fact she didn’t go to school at all last week, then I had/have it. Thankfully we’re all on the mend.
Dian’s been getting bullied at school, we think that is under control at the moment and things are looking up, and then she came home yesterday with this story. She goes to school on the bus, and recently has been sitting next to a 15yo (possibly mentally disabled or autistic) boy, J. I’m not sure how severe his impairment is. Anyway, she’s been telling us that he likes her, and he used to like another girl in her class. That’s bad enough, so I’ve been telling her to sit somewhere else. Yesterday, the only seat available on the bus home was next to Jack.
He told her that tomorrow he was going to bring a knife with him, told her she had to come to his party so he could flog her, and then proceeded to push her head down to her knees and sit on her five or six times! Apparently the kids sitting near told him to stop but he wouldn’t, and the bus driver didn’t notice.
I’ve reported it to Dian’s school, and the deputy principal rang J’s school. They are all horrified, as they should be, and we’ve been told that we can report it to the police if we choose to, as an assault. I’ve chosen not to at this point, but if he ever touches Dian again then it will definately be reported!
wow.
that just makes me sick to my stomach. were his parents told? gosh … i’m so sorry!
I believe his parents have been informed. I will be ringing J’s school tomorrow to find out exactly what action has been taken. If they don’t inform his parents we’ll have to rethink whether we report him to the police I guess.
Dian was pulled out of maths this morning to have a chat to the deputy principal and primary coordinator (same person who is dealing with the other bullying) and it appears that J may be brought to the school with a teacher to apologise to her.
I have to admit, I’m not sure I’m keen on that. Maybe if I was present? I don’t know.
Why can’t kids just be nice to each other???
because evil reigns over earth…sadly.
i think you should be present. i mean, what good is it going to do to have a 15 year old kid apologize to someone in front of an adult? it won’t make dian feel better, it’ll make her feel embarassed and ridiculous. i used to get mean letters thrown at me in high school, and i finally told the teacher.
granted, when the kid who did it was brought to me to apologize, he didnt’ do it again…
kid should be kicked off the school bus.